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A Very Narrow Bridge: Reflections of a Psychologist
Dr. Rickey Miller, Psychologist and Author
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A Very Narrow Bridge: Reflections of a Psychologist
A Very Narrow Bridge: Reflections of a Psychologist, weaves together my stories with those of my patients to create an intricate tapestry of our common humanity.
We begin as I retire...
This turning point in my life triggers a cascade of questions that my younger self seldom consciously considered.
- When is it time to give up rather than persist in trying to improve a relationship?
- What enables us to control our angry feelings in some situations and not in others?
- Is faith a weakness or a strength?
- When does helping another become destructive?
- How can we move from guilt to regret?
- Do the ends ever justify the means?
- How is it that we are sometimes resilient and other times sink into despair?
I describe my challenges in raising a gay, brilliant daughter, and a son, with a developmental disability; my struggling through a stormy divorce battle; coping with significant losses and trauma; and caring for an aging parent.
Patients include angry, adolescent boys pressured to participate in group therapy at a psychiatric clinic, an abused woman from Kenya who suffers depression after being injured at work, a woman who is disabled by an obsessive-compulsive disorder, and a man from Trinidad who struggles with post-traumatic anxiety.
The stories shift from the perspective of my younger self to those of my older self, bringing a greater depth to our understanding of the questions and dilemmas that my patients and I faced.
During their journey with me, my hope is that readers will reflect with greater understanding on questions they face and choices that are open to them in moving toward greater self-care.